Good afternoon!

A change is in the air, no scratch that – there are NUMEROUS changes in the air for 2014!!

I have been giving this a lot of thought over the past few months and I realize that there are some serious changes going to be happening in my life over this next year. I can’t discuss them all here because, well, some of them have to be handled very delicately, but I know they are a-coming!! 🙂

Someone, just last week, told me that it was up to me to choose to be happy. For the most part I do agree with that statement, but for some reason it really kind of rubbed me the wrong way. Just because you are unhappy doesn’t mean that you are doing a bad job of not choosing to be happy, because, believe you me, I have tried to put every positive thinking kind of spin on what I have been dealing with as possible, but sometimes being happy means not staying where you are.

My husband, who sometimes has the funniest way of putting things into perspective for me, said this,

“When you are standing in a pit getting urinated on from above, you can smile and convince yourself that it is just fresh Spring water, but the reality is you’re still getting peed on!”

LOL!! Yes, I absolutely understand what he is saying!!! 🙂

So, I know that this year will be the year that my sweetie and I will be packing up and moving on in a lot of areas of our lives. It is our job to choose to be happy, but to do that we also have to choose where we live, work, play, who we live, work, and play with, and how we live work, and play! I know that these changes are going to be so fruitful, and such a LOT of HARD WORK, but I know that when I look back on the choices that I make, I will be able to do so without regrets.

May we make our choices wisely, without any malice in our hearts, without fear slowing us down, and without worrying about what others may say about any of our choices!

Here is to what is to come in 2014!

To a FABULOUS 2014! 🙂

If you want to have a different life, you have to live differently!!