I find myself smiling at the days events as if I have a little secret. And I do. I’ll share it with you.

Ready……..

No matter how much a man tells his woman she is beautifull, smart, likeable, or worth knowing, it isn’t until another woman (one that holds her respect) affirms this does she truelly allow herself to revel in her belief that it is true.
Mind you men that this doesn’t mean that your efforts are for not. On the contrary, we men who find ourselves so often scorned by a womans lack of faith in our oppinion of her worth are in fact having such feelings in vain. We are the architects of a womans self worth, building the foundations of her feeling of self-worth. This is provided she has invested her heart with you. If you give little effort to your task, you will only succeed in making her feel of little value. To the contrary, if you work with diligence and great passion to build her up, she will have little choice but to become what you believe her to be, and when one of her friends or co-workers compliments her, it is a compliment to you as well. Look up the story of the Ten Cow Wife sometime and you’ll get the point more clearly.

Till next time. J